This page is intended for those approaching Alcoholics Anonymous (A.A.) for the first time. In it we have tried to answer the (FAQ) questions most frequently in the minds of newcomers the questions which were in our minds when we first approached the Fellowship.
Am I an alcoholic ?
Only you can decide. No one in A.A. will tell you whether your are or not.
What can I do it I am worried about my drinking ?
Seek help ...... Alcoholics Anonymous can help.
What is Alcoholics Anonymous ?
We are a Fellowships of men and women who have lost the ability to control our drinking & have found ourselves in various kinds of trouble as a result of drinking.,,, We attempt -- most of us successfully -- to create a satisfying way of life without alcohol. For this we find we need the help and support of other alcoholics in A.A.
If I go to a meeting, does that commit me to anything ?
No .. A.A. does not keep membership files, or attendance records.......... You do not have to reveal anything about yourself. No member will bother you if you don't want to come back.
What happens if I meet people I know there ?
They will be there for the same reason you are there. They will not disclose your identity to outsiders. At A.A. you retain as much anonymity as your wish. That is one of the reasons we call ourselves Alcoholics Anonymous.
What happens at an A.A. meeting ?
An A.A. meeting may take one of several forms; some there may be a speaker and others a group discussion, but at any meeting, you will find alcoholics talking about what drinking did to their lives and personalities, what actions they took to help themselves, and how they are living their lives today.
How can this help me with my drinking problem ?
We in A.A. know what it is like to be addicted to alcohol, and to be unable to keep promises made to others and ourselves that we will stop drinking. We are not profess- ional therapists. Our only qualification for helping others to recover from alcoholism is that we have stopped drinking ourselves, but problems drinkers coming to us know that recovery is possible because they see people who have done it.
Why do A.A. members keep on going to meetings ..... .................................. after they have been cured ?
We in A.A. believe there is not such thing as a cure for alcoholism. We can never return to normal drinking, and our ability to stay away from alcohol depends on main- taining our physical, mental, and spiritual health. This we can achieve by going to meetings regularly and putting into practice what we learn there. In addition, we find it helps us to stay sober if we help other alcoholics.
How do I join A.A. ?
You are an A.A. member if and when you say so. The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking, and many of us were not very wholehearted about that when we first approached A.A.
How much does A.A. membership cost ?
There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership. An A.A. group will usually have a collection during the meeting to cover expenses, such as rent, coffee, etc., and to this all members are free to contribute as much or as little as they wish.
Is A.A. a religious organization ?
No ..... Nor is it allied with any religious organization.
Is there a lot of talk about God at meetings ?
The majority of A.A. members believe ...... that we have found the solution to our drinking problem not through individual willpower, but through a power greater than ourselves. However, everyone defines this power as he or she wishes. Many members call it God, others think it is the A.A. group, still others .... don't believe in it at all. There is room in A.A. for people of all shades of belief and non-belief.
Can I bring my family to an A.A. meeting ?
Family members & close friends are welcome at 'Open Meetings', check the meeting list. Discuss this with your local contact person.
What advise do you give new members ?
In our experience .......... the people who recover in A.A. are those who:
(a) stay away from the first drink
(b) attend meetings regularly
(c) seek out the members in A.A. who have successfully stayed sober for some time
(d) try to put into practice the A.A. program of recovery
If you repeatedly drink more than you intend or want to, if you get into trouble, or if you have memory lapses when you drink, you may be an alcoholic. You however, might want to take the 20 Question Quiz
How can I contact Alcoholics Anonymous (A.A.) ?
Look for Alcoholics Anonymous in your local telephone directory.
London 519-438-1122
Ingersoll 519-438-1122
St Thomas 519-633-0430
Woodstock 519-438-1122
Phone lines are answered by AA member volunteers who will be happy to answer your questions, or put you in touch with those who can.
If you would like more information about the AA Program you can view one of our pamphlets by clicking here.
Hope to see you at one of our meetings !
yours in A.A. service
Hugh H. member & site webmaster
