A.A. DOESN’T WORK ANYMORE

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One of the saddest statements I have ever heard is, "I’ve been to A.A. and it doesn’t work." There is no way I can count the number of times over the past couple of decades I have found an alcoholic coming off a drunk who made that statement. Just today, one of my protégés called to tell me of a man, holed up in a cheap motel room, he was asked to locate and see if he could help him.



My protégé was successful in locating the suffering alcoholic and did what he had been instructed to do on a Twelve Step call. He told him some of the story of his drinking and how he had come to know it to be an illness over which he had no control nor did the medical profession have a solution.



The suffering alcoholic finally said, "You’re going to try to tell me about A.A. aren’t you?" Jake said, "That is where I found my solution. "The sick one said, "I have gone to A.A. meetings for the last eight 8 months and did what they told me to do. It doesn’t work for me."



Jake asked, "Did you take the Steps with a sponsor who had been blessed with a spiritual experience as the result of having taken the Steps?" The sick one said, "I think I did but the main thing they told me was just keep coming back and you’ll be OK. When I asked what else I should do, I was told, Don’t drink and keep on going to more meetings. I did what they told me to do and A.A. just doesn’t work."



A member of Alcoholics Anonymous found me near death in 1964 and told me he could help me. He said to me, "I understand. I have been where you are and I want to help you if you will let me." I was willing to do anything. He took me to his A.A. club and began sobering me up on orange juice with some honey mixed in it. When I began having delirium tremens, they added some Bay Rum to the mixture. There were no treatment centers in our area at that time and hospitals would not admit us for alcoholism. We either shook and sweat it out in jail or at an A.A. club. By far, most of them made it to the end sober or they still are. I wasn’t one of them. I saw an opportunity to return my ego to its earlier level by getting involved in a new and exciting profession and so I went for it. Sixteen years after my last drink; 11 years after my last meeting, on a day without a cloud in the sky, I thought having a beer would be a good idea, so being in a very dry county, I drove 70 miles for a six-pack. It took me 2 years to make it back to Alcoholics Anonymous very, very drunk.



But what a difference 13 years can make! There were no alcoholics laying around the club with dry heaves. There were no blood shot eyes, sweating faces, no vibrating bodies, the aroma of alcoholism was missing. There was no orange juice in the refrigerator nor honey near the coffee pot. There was no Bay Rum in the file cabinet. It was no longer needed because almost everyone had gone to treatment and been medicated through the process of what is termed de-tox. They had missed those wonderful golden moments of the misery, suffering and pain of sobering up. At first, I thought the new approach was good but then I began to see the results. There was less and less commitment to the group and the action necessary for long term emotional sobriety was being ignored.



There were very few Big Book study or speaker meetings but a large number of discussion/participation meetings where everyone was given an opportunity to talk about whatever was on their mind whether on not they knew anything about alcoholism or recovery from alcoholism. There were even non-alcoholics participating in these meetings. This newer approach of learning to live with alcoholism was beginning to prove to be a dismal failure.



I heard a tape of Joe McQ. and later attended a weekend of Joe McQ. and Charlie P. presenting their Big Book Comes Alive program. It then became very clear why so many were returning to the bottle. Not only were we without sick alcoholics laying around the meeting places, there was so little program in our meetings, it was almost hidden from the newcomers. No wonder so few were finding more than a few months of physical sobriety. They were denied what is required for long term emotional sobriety.



Without the sick alcoholics laying round the meeting place, I had to find a place where I could again see and smell alcoholism. I needed a frequent reminder of where I came from and what was waiting for me if I didn‘t continue to pay the price for emotional sobriety. Over the years since I have been blessed to have been given another opportunity to survive the deadliest disease known to mankind, I have volunteered in many wind-up places where those coming off a drunk are present and available to talk with. Again and again, I heard that sickening statement, "I went to A.A. and it doesn’t work."



Of course, they are right. Alcoholics Anonymous does not work! We must work it! But they were not told the truth. My basic text reads, "Rarely, have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path" The path being the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous as outlined in a book titled Alcoholics Anonymous. My basic text does not read, "Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of don’t drink and go to meetings." It reads, "Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and practice these principles in all our affairs."



Our real problem is ego driven sponsorship with very little if any real concern for the welfare of the newcomer. Proclaimed members of our fellowship who have never taken the Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous will assume the responsibility for the life of a newcomer and will proudly announce the number of sponsees they have. As one of my dear friends said, "The manner in which we now fail our responsibility to the newcomer borders on slaughter." The demise of our sense of responsibility to those seeking help for alcoholism is one of the greatest tragedies of our time in history. It works only if we work it (working all 12 Steps, meetings/fellowship, and being of service expecting nothing in return)!

Cliff B. - Dallas Tx





When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that the 'Old Oak Tree' grow  strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure.
  --Peter Marshall



The Twelve Steps to a Slip

Jan. 1949 - Grapevine - Reprinted with the permission of the AA ©  Grapevine


People who attain sobriety through the A.A. principles, do so only after a thoughtful application of the 12 Suggested Steps to recovery.  They happily find  themselves on a level plateau of sanity after ascending these steps, one after another, and they maintain their sobriety by a continuing application of these same steps.

Those unfortunates who lose their sobriety are said to be having a "slip".  I believe this is a misnomer, for it suggests only a momentary adversity that unexpectedly pounces on its unwary victim.  A more apt term would be a "glissade," for a slip is the result of a gradual process, beginning long before its logical termination, and progressing through a series of wrong steps, to a drink, and for us, a drunk.

A slip cannot be said to occur only when it culminates in a drink, for many of us, in our failure to apply the 12 Steps to our living, frequently have slips, which are none the less slips merely because we do not slip as far as a drink.

As one must ascend the 12 Steps gradually, I feel the "slip" is the result of unconsciously descending these Steps..  And as descending steps is always accompanied with less effort than ascending them, the steps soon assume the behavior of an escalator.

As the "bottom" is reached it invariably results in taking that "one drink," which leads, for us, only to all the remorse, terror and unhappiness that follows a binge.

These then are, in my opinion, the "12 Steps to a slip," and are the direct result of failure to consciously apply to our lives the 12 Suggested Steps to recovery:


     1.  We neglect 12th Step work.

     2.  We omit contact with the Higher Power.

     3.  We forget personal inventory.

     4.  We assume grudges against others.

     5.  We miss A.A. meetings, and avoid A.A. friends.

     6.  We gradually lose humility.

     7.  We fall into self-pity.

     8.  We worry about unalterables.

     9.  Our thinkin' really starts stinkin'.

    10. We become "cocky" and overconfident.

    11. We neglect to ask help from our Higher Power, and take "just one."

    12. We become a "social drinker." (Temporarily.)

                                           R. H. from Dunkirk, Indiana, Jan. 1949, Grapevine


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SLIP = Sobriety Loses it's Priority
The drink is actually the End of the slip.
The slip has been occurring long before we take a drink.
Taking a drink is the result/final product of 'Slipping'.
The Twelve Steps to a Slip - Alcohlics Anonymous - AA
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